Hey LouBelle,
First off, I totally support you and your mom and aunt on this. It's totally hypocritical to shun you like you have the plague and then expect you to come running when it's convenient to get money from you. Would they help out if the situation were reversed? Not likely!
Just be aware that they will probably spin this to say those "disgusting apostates" won't even help destitute family members and how loving Jehovah's True Servants are because THEY step up to the plate. HYPOCRITES!
They will go to great lengths to portray themselves in the best light and paint "apostates" with as broad a "wicked" brush as possible.
Sorry you're having to go through all of this. Take care.
Radar